As a single father, you know firsthand the challenges and rewards of raising children on your own. It can be tough to juggle all the responsibilities that come with being a parent, but the love and bond you have with your children make it all worth it.

One quote that you may have heard before is “Happy Wife, Happy Life.” This phrase suggests that the happiness of the wife is the key to a happy and successful relationship. However, as a single father, you know that this quote is one-sided and doesn’t take into account the needs and happiness of the husband or father. Too many husbands have learned, through direct experience, that “Happy Wife, Happy Life” is not always applicable, true or finite, as a wife’s feelings can change for any number of reasons and happiness declines. If this weren’t true, No-Fault Divorce would not exist. It is not uncommon for a wife to initiate a no-fault divorce because they are unhappy in the marriage. In such cases, the wife might use the phrase “I’m not happy” to explain their desire to end the marriage.

In contrast, a more relational quote for a single father like you would be “Happy King, Happy Kingdom.” This phrase recognizes that the happiness and well-being of the father is just as important as the mother’s in creating a happy and thriving family dynamic.

It’s important to remember that as a single father, you are the head of your household and have the power to create a positive and nurturing environment for your children. By prioritizing your own happiness and well-being, you can set a strong foundation for your family and create a kingdom that is filled with love, joy, and support.

So don’t be afraid to prioritize your own needs and happiness as a single father. Remember, a happy king leads to a happy kingdom.