You are not alone, and your experiences are valid. It’s time to break the silence and assert your rights as a survivor of domestic violence, regardless of who the perpetrator may be. Recent research, as highlighted by Aliesq, has unveiled a stark reality: women can be perpetrators, and men often underreport these incidents¹. It’s high time we recognize the full scope of domestic violence and stand firmly in support of those who have endured it.

The statistics speak volumes: in relationships marred by violence, women initiate physical aggression at a staggering rate of 53.3%, compared to 46.7% by men¹. These numbers shatter the prevailing narrative and demand a reevaluation of our collective understanding of domestic violence dynamics.

Single Father, your safety and the safety of your children must be your unwavering priority. If you find yourself in a threatening situation, do not hesitate—call emergency services immediately. As a Single Father, it’s crucial to remember that your experiences are valid, and you should never hesitate to seek help if you find yourself in a harmful situation. The reluctance of men to report domestic violence incidents can be attributed to various factors, including societal expectations and the fear of not being taken seriously. This underreporting only emphasizes the urgency of addressing this issue and providing support to those who need it.

Here are some steps to consider if you suspect or are experiencing domestic violence:

1. Safety First: Your safety and the safety of your children should always be the top priority. If you feel threatened, do not hesitate to call emergency services.
2. Seek Professional Help: Reach out to a domestic violence hotline or local support organizations. They can offer guidance, resources, and a safe space to discuss your situation.
3. Document Incidents: Keep a record of any incidents, including dates, times, and descriptions. This can be invaluable if you decide to involve law enforcement.
4. Talk to Trusted Individuals: Share your experiences with someone you trust, such as a close friend or family member. They can offer emotional support and may provide valuable perspectives.
5. Legal Support: Consult with a lawyer to understand your rights and legal options, especially if you’re considering separation or divorce.
6. Therapeutic Support: Consider seeking therapy or counseling for yourself and your children. Professional support can help you navigate the emotional challenges that may arise.

Single Father, it’s time to take charge of your narrative. Break free from the silence surrounding domestic violence and assert your right to a safe and secure future for you and your children.

You are a survivor, you are strong, and you are not alone. Together, we stand with you.

Aliesq, “Extensive Research: Women Initiate Domestic Violence More Than Men & Men Under-Report It,” Medium ↩ ↩²